BHAIYYA DOOJ FESTIVAL IN INDIA
( OH VISHNU DEVTA IN THE FORM OF NARSINGH AWATAR--PROTECT MY BROTHER)
(THALI WITH SEVEN TIKAS , DIYA & HOLY WATER)
(THE SEVEN TIKAS)
(LORD VISHNU)
Bhau-Beej / Bhai
Tika / Bhai Phota / Bhai
Dooj / भाऊबीज is a festival celebrated by Hindus on the last day of the five-day-long Diwali festival. This is the second day of
the bright fortnight or Shukla Paksha of the Hindu month of Kartika.
The
celebrations of this day are similar to the festival of Raksha Bandhan.
On this day, sisters pray for their brothers to have long and happy lives by
performing the Tika ceremony, and
sisters give gifts to their brothers.
Regional Names
The festival is known as:
·
Bhai Phota (Bengali:ভাই ফোঁটা) in
Bengal and it takes place every year on the first or the second day of the Kali Puja festival.
·
Bhai Bij, Bhau-beej or Bhav Bij (Marathi : भाऊबीज) amongst
the Gujarati, Marathi and Konkani-speaking communities in the states of Gujarat, Maharashtra, Goa and Karnataka;
·
Bhai Tika in Nepal, where it is the
second most important festival after Vijaya Dashami.
·
Another
name for the day is Yamadwitheya or Yamadvitiya, after a legendary
meeting between Yama the god of Death and his sister Yamuna (the
famous river) on Dwitheya (the second day after new moon).
·
Other
names include Bhayya Dooj, Bhathru Dwithiya, Bhai Tika and Bhatri Ditya.
According to another popular legend in Hindu mythology, after slaying the evil demon Narkasur, Lord Krishna visited his sister Subhadra who gave him a warm welcome with sweets and
flowers. She also affectionately applied tilak on Krishna's forehead.
Some believe this to be the origin of the festival.
The ceremony
On the day of the festival, sisters invite
their brothers for a sumptuous meal often including their favorite dishes. The
whole ceremony signifies the duty of a brother to protect his sister, as well
as a sister's blessings for her brother.
Carrying forward the ceremony in
traditional style, sisters perform aarti for their brother and
apply a red tika on the brother's
forehead. This tika ceremony on the occasion
of Bhai Bij signifies the sister's sincerest prayers for the long and happy
life of her brother. In return brothers bless their sisters and treat them also
with gifts or cash.
As it is customary in Haryana, Maharashtra to celebrate the auspicious occasion of
Bhau-beej, women who do not have a brother worship the moon god instead. They apply mehendi on girls as their tradition.
The sister, whose brother lives far away
from her and cannot come to her house, sends her sincerest prayers for the long
and happy life of her brother through the moon god. She performs aarti for the moon. This is the
reason why children of Hindu parents affectionately call the moon Chandamama (Chanda means moon and mama means mother's brother).
The celebration
Bhai Phota in West Bengal is celebrated with much
splendor. The ceremony is marked with many rituals along with a grand feast
arranged for the brothers.
The festival of Bhai Bij is popular in Uttarakhand, Uttar Pradesh,Haryana, Gujarat, Maharashtra and Goa and is celebrated with great
fervour and gaiety. Brothers and sisters look forward to the occasion with
immense enthusiasm. To add charm to the occasion, Bhai Bij gifts are exchanged
between brothers and sisters as a token of love and appreciation.
Bhav Bij is a time for family reunions as
all brothers and sisters in the family get together. Close relatives and
friends are also invited to celebrate the Bhav Bij in many families.
Special dishes for the festival include the
Maharashtra sweet called basundi poori or kheerni poori.On this occasion sisters
give gifts to their brothers - who reciprocate most generously.
